Will You Be My Bridesmaid? – 9 Creative Ways to Ask!

Will You Be My Bridesmaid?

Brides (and their families!) tend to go all out for all aspects of the wedding day. When a Bride asks a Bridesmaid to be a part of her special day… it has become customary to make it very special and well thought out (almost like another proposal)! Often times, brides have a hard time deciding who to choose for their bridal party. Because of this, it’s become popular to ask these bridesmaids in very fun and memorable ways. Here are some of my all-time favorite ways!

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Custom label bottle of wine.

These can be funny and whimsical or completely serious. To say that these make great keepsakes is a bit of a stretch! They’re totally going to drink them, of course! At least the bottle can remain as a beautiful memory of the day she stood by your side. Did you know that our winery can make these for you?

bridesmaid a place in the vineyard

A “Proposal” Necklace.

The necklace in and of itself is beautiful and a classic piece that be incorporated into any outfit but paired with that card… it’s just perfect! Every time she wears the necklace she will be reminded of the times spent with you during the most pivotal moments of your life. (Wow that’s deep)

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Check “Yes” or “No” Note.

This may not work for all of your bridesmaids but it would be an amazing throwback for those who accompanied you through elementary and middle school as you passed notes back and forth. Love this idea so much!

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Message on a Cork.

Come on… who wouldn’t like unraveling this to find the hidden message! Only thing cuter would be if it was a special “language” they had to decode. Gah that’s got me all giddy just thinking about it!

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Bridesmaid Survival Kit.

If you’ve ever been a bridesmaid before, you know how this can come in handy. Signing up to be a bridesmaid is a huge honor and pleasure but it can also be stressful and a bit of a financial burden. Lighten it up with a goodie box/bag!


Custom Wine Glasses.

Can you tell what I’m a little biased toward?… WINE! This is cute and functional which is a win-win. Can be painted custom with the girl’s name or monogram and dress color! Sip that wine in style!

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A Pinky Promise Note.

Kind of. This is really funny and I would have cracked up if I’d received this as a “will you be my bridesmaid” gift. Who doesn’t appreciate some bridezilla humor? If you’ve got a good sense of humor, this one’s for you.

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Bridesmaid Hair Ties.

These are super cute and something she can use on a weekly basis. They don’t scream “hey look at me I’m a bridesmaid!” and I really like that. Obviously you can scream it on the wedding day┬ábut any other day… that’s kinda weird. (check out this idea for day of bridesmaids attire!)

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Be My Bridesmaid Puzzle.

This one has my name written all over it… no, really! As a kid, I would put together dozens of puzzles all over the floor and make my mom walk through my “art gallery”. Ok maybe your friends wouldn’t get a huge kick out of this one but surely one of the others!

Whatever you pick, I’m sure your bridesmaids will love the extra attention and effort.

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